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How To Break Free Of Perfectionism | S01E11

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Sally Miller에서 제공하는 콘텐츠입니다. 에피소드, 그래픽, 팟캐스트 설명을 포함한 모든 팟캐스트 콘텐츠는 Sally Miller 또는 해당 팟캐스트 플랫폼 파트너가 직접 업로드하고 제공합니다. 누군가가 귀하의 허락 없이 귀하의 저작물을 사용하고 있다고 생각되는 경우 여기에 설명된 절차를 따르실 수 있습니다 https://ko.player.fm/legal.

In her best-selling book, The Gifts Of Imperfection, Brene Brown said this:

“Perfectionism is a self-destructive and addictive belief system that fuels this primary thought: If I look perfect and do everything perfectly, I can avoid or minimize the painful feelings of blame, judgement, and shame.”

In other words, perfectionism is an attempt to protect yourself from experiencing negative feelings like shame. The problem is, it’s a strategy that doesn’t work.

In fact, perfectionism leads to more of the very thing you’re trying to avoid.

In this episode, I show you how perfectionism sets you up for failure and creates more shame. Then, I share four steps to break free of perfectionism.

Following these steps takes bravery. You need to risk judgement… and shame. Yet the rewards are worth it. At the end of the episode, I read a poem that concludes like this:

The person who risks nothing, does nothing,

has nothing is nothing.

He may avoid suffering and sorrow,

But he cannot learn, feel, change, grow or live.

Chained by his servitude he is a slave

who has forfeited all freedom.

Only a person who risks is free.

What you’ll learn on today’s episode:

  • Common signs of perfectionism and how to have compassion for yourself.
  • Three reasons why perfectionism keeps you trapped and prevents business growth.
  • Four steps to break out of perfectionism and end the shame-cycle.

Featured on this episode:

The Gifts Of Imperfection by Brene Brown

Episode 7: The Visibility Challenge: Retrain Your Brain

Doors to Business Growth Lab open again in May! Get more information at https://www.sallyannmiller.com/thelab/

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Why? 피드 비활성화 status. 잠시 서버에 문제가 발생해 팟캐스트를 불러오지 못합니다.

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In her best-selling book, The Gifts Of Imperfection, Brene Brown said this:

“Perfectionism is a self-destructive and addictive belief system that fuels this primary thought: If I look perfect and do everything perfectly, I can avoid or minimize the painful feelings of blame, judgement, and shame.”

In other words, perfectionism is an attempt to protect yourself from experiencing negative feelings like shame. The problem is, it’s a strategy that doesn’t work.

In fact, perfectionism leads to more of the very thing you’re trying to avoid.

In this episode, I show you how perfectionism sets you up for failure and creates more shame. Then, I share four steps to break free of perfectionism.

Following these steps takes bravery. You need to risk judgement… and shame. Yet the rewards are worth it. At the end of the episode, I read a poem that concludes like this:

The person who risks nothing, does nothing,

has nothing is nothing.

He may avoid suffering and sorrow,

But he cannot learn, feel, change, grow or live.

Chained by his servitude he is a slave

who has forfeited all freedom.

Only a person who risks is free.

What you’ll learn on today’s episode:

  • Common signs of perfectionism and how to have compassion for yourself.
  • Three reasons why perfectionism keeps you trapped and prevents business growth.
  • Four steps to break out of perfectionism and end the shame-cycle.

Featured on this episode:

The Gifts Of Imperfection by Brene Brown

Episode 7: The Visibility Challenge: Retrain Your Brain

Doors to Business Growth Lab open again in May! Get more information at https://www.sallyannmiller.com/thelab/

  continue reading

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