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Psychology's guide to 18 oddities of desire

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Sam Webster Harris and Growth Mindset Psychology에서 제공하는 콘텐츠입니다. 에피소드, 그래픽, 팟캐스트 설명을 포함한 모든 팟캐스트 콘텐츠는 Sam Webster Harris and Growth Mindset Psychology 또는 해당 팟캐스트 플랫폼 파트너가 직접 업로드하고 제공합니다. 누군가가 귀하의 허락 없이 귀하의 저작물을 사용하고 있다고 생각되는 경우 여기에 설명된 절차를 따르실 수 있습니다 https://ko.player.fm/legal.

Navigating the great paradoxes of the heart. What if everything we believed about perfect relationships was exactly what held us back from creating meaningful ones?

Consider a few classic paradoxes:

  • In our quest for closeness, we often create distance
  • Distance often brings you closer
  • Your partner's annoying habits, might actually be their best qualities....

This episode explores the delicate threads that weave together seemingly contradictory truths in relationships,

Key topics:

  • Learn to identify when your "weaknesses" are actually relationship superpowers
  • Stop trying to fix your relationship and start understanding its paradoxes
  • Why being "needy" isn't always bad (and why pretending you're not is worse)
  • Get real about what healthy conflict actually looks like

These paradoxes aren't problems to solve, but gateways to understanding the profound complexity of human connection.

Time to stop chasing perfection and start building something real. Your next breakthrough in understanding relationships isn't in resolving these paradoxes – it's in learning to dance with them.

Upgrade to Premium:

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🤘 Support the show

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👋 Free Call - Schedule Link - https://cal.com/samwebster/mindset

📧 Email - GrowthMindsetPodcast (@) gmail,com

Growth Mindset Psychology:

Sam Webster explores the psychology of happiness, satisfaction, purpose, and growth through the lens of self-improvement.

📺 Watch - YouTube (Growth Mindset)

🛜 Website - Growth Mindset

Show: Growth Mindset, psychology of self-improvement

Episode: The Matrix of Modern Love: Psychology's Guide to 18 Relationship Mysteries

Chapters:

00:00 Strength through vulnerability

02:43 The closest cuts are the Deepest

04:05 Disgusting is Delightful

05:14 Craving for attention vs. repulsing against it

06:54 Distance breeds Closeness

07:44 Unity Needs Conflict

08:36 Accepting vs Growing a Partner

10:17 Imperfect is perfect

11:16 Reality vs Expectations

12:56 Equality and diversity

14:49 Relationships are not easy

15:39 Selfishness to be altruistic

17:14 Nurture Transparency and Privacy

18:45 Paradox of Commitment for Freedom

19:42 Comfort vs passion

20:50 Independence vs Interdependence

21:56 Life is beautiful but cruel

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Sam Webster Harris and Growth Mindset Psychology에서 제공하는 콘텐츠입니다. 에피소드, 그래픽, 팟캐스트 설명을 포함한 모든 팟캐스트 콘텐츠는 Sam Webster Harris and Growth Mindset Psychology 또는 해당 팟캐스트 플랫폼 파트너가 직접 업로드하고 제공합니다. 누군가가 귀하의 허락 없이 귀하의 저작물을 사용하고 있다고 생각되는 경우 여기에 설명된 절차를 따르실 수 있습니다 https://ko.player.fm/legal.

Navigating the great paradoxes of the heart. What if everything we believed about perfect relationships was exactly what held us back from creating meaningful ones?

Consider a few classic paradoxes:

  • In our quest for closeness, we often create distance
  • Distance often brings you closer
  • Your partner's annoying habits, might actually be their best qualities....

This episode explores the delicate threads that weave together seemingly contradictory truths in relationships,

Key topics:

  • Learn to identify when your "weaknesses" are actually relationship superpowers
  • Stop trying to fix your relationship and start understanding its paradoxes
  • Why being "needy" isn't always bad (and why pretending you're not is worse)
  • Get real about what healthy conflict actually looks like

These paradoxes aren't problems to solve, but gateways to understanding the profound complexity of human connection.

Time to stop chasing perfection and start building something real. Your next breakthrough in understanding relationships isn't in resolving these paradoxes – it's in learning to dance with them.

Upgrade to Premium:

🏖️ Ad-free listening

🤘 Support the show

🔓 Exclusive AMAs and bonus content

💬 Community Discord

GrowthMindset.Supercast.com

Get in Touch

👋 Free Call - Schedule Link - https://cal.com/samwebster/mindset

📧 Email - GrowthMindsetPodcast (@) gmail,com

Growth Mindset Psychology:

Sam Webster explores the psychology of happiness, satisfaction, purpose, and growth through the lens of self-improvement.

📺 Watch - YouTube (Growth Mindset)

🛜 Website - Growth Mindset

Show: Growth Mindset, psychology of self-improvement

Episode: The Matrix of Modern Love: Psychology's Guide to 18 Relationship Mysteries

Chapters:

00:00 Strength through vulnerability

02:43 The closest cuts are the Deepest

04:05 Disgusting is Delightful

05:14 Craving for attention vs. repulsing against it

06:54 Distance breeds Closeness

07:44 Unity Needs Conflict

08:36 Accepting vs Growing a Partner

10:17 Imperfect is perfect

11:16 Reality vs Expectations

12:56 Equality and diversity

14:49 Relationships are not easy

15:39 Selfishness to be altruistic

17:14 Nurture Transparency and Privacy

18:45 Paradox of Commitment for Freedom

19:42 Comfort vs passion

20:50 Independence vs Interdependence

21:56 Life is beautiful but cruel

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