At a young age, Chris was diagnosed with a medical micropenis. For years, he struggled with sex and dating until he discovered two kinks that fueled a macro sex drive – Small Penis Humiliation and Cuckolding. Talking about shame, sexuality, and penis size is particularly challenging for cis men due to toxic masculinity. But Chris’ story isn’t exclu…

Finding a friend with benefits can be hard at any age. But today’s guest, Cynthia, faced the daunting task of finding a sexual partner at the age of 78 and following the loss of her husband. She knew that she wanted a friend with benefits, and she even had her eye on someone specific. But the ultimate hurdle? Asking him. In this fascinating and ref…

On the surface, Bill is your everyday blue collar man. But a back-breaking injury led him down the unexpected path of sexual enlightenment. Bill takes us along on his journey from discovering Kundalini rising to being catapulted into a world where the lines between pleasure, pain, and awakening are blurred, challenging everything we think we know a…

Money is a major source of stress for so many people. We’re always thinking about it, talking about it, and worrying about it. But it’s rare that we think about the way that money affects our sexual relationships. Listen in to our conversation with Master Certified Ontological Coach, Tracey Burns, as we navigate through the seldom-discussed dynamic…

Ready for an Unforgettable Journey of Strength and Resilience? We’re kicking off season 3 with a conversation with Ally Hensley, a woman who was born with a rare condition called Mayer-Rokitansky-Küster-Hauser (MRKH) Syndrome, resulting in the absence of a vagina and reproductive organs. Our conversation follows her relationship with her body befor…

In this episode, we delve into the hot topic of sending nude pictures in the digital age. Responding to a listener's question, we unpack the risks involved and explore five key strategies to minimize potential harm: consent, self-awareness, anonymity, trust, and legal considerations. Whether you're contemplating sharing an intimate photo or just se…

Chances are, if you have a unique sexual turn-on, there are many others with the exact same inclination. So many, in fact, that you might just be able to make a career out of it. That's what Milo Miles did. We met Milo last winter at the Dan Savage Amateur Erotic Film Festival, Humpfest. Milo starred in the documentary film "The Boy with the Tighty…

Ever found yourself on a date, debating between leaving on a high or just gritting your teeth to the finish? In this episode, we're uncovering the art of gracefully wrapping up dates, with a spotlight on our comfort and safety. Let's navigate the intricacies of those initial encounters. Eager to dive deep? Let's get rolling! Show Notes [00:00:00] -…

Guess what? Even 'Curb Your Enthusiasm' missed the mark on Orthodox Jewish sex! I've got Shely Esses on the show today—a Sex Therapist from Toronto, Canada. With her expertise in Jewish healing, she's here to bust myths and shine a light on the cultural nuances surrounding intimacy within the Orthodox Jewish community. Let's shtup in! Show Notes [0…

Today we're diving deep into the nuances of initiation. We'll discuss sexual initiation, its dynamics, and why understanding our preferences is more crucial than we might think. If you've ever felt a little out of sync with your partner or just curious about how to create a bridge to sexual connection, this episode is for you. Let's get started! Sh…

In this evocative episode, Toronto-based Rahat Pye, MSW, RSW — an adolescent, individual, family, and couples therapist — unravels the deeply personal story of her mother, a Female Genital Mutilation (FGM) survivor from Bombay, India. Diving deep into the trauma, defiance, and resilience, Rahat sheds light on the stark realities of FGM and its prof…

We're excited to share a recording of the Sex in Space podcast interview with Andrew Gurza and Heather Morrison, co-founders of Handi. Handi makes sex toys designed by and for disabled people. The mission behind Handi is that everyone should be able to ‘get off’. Listen in to hear about how Handi came to be, the hands on research behind Handi and h…

Ever wondered how to flirt or wished someone would teach your partner? Michelle dives into the question "How do you flirt?" in today's episode. Flirting is all about personal attraction, confidence, playful gestures, and engaging body language. Michelle reminds us to pay attention to the other person's cues to see if your flirtation is reciprocated…

This is a story about how one couple embarks on a journey of rediscovering their sexual chemistry after 15 years, employing mindfulness, cannabis, and flowstate. Listen as host, Certified Sex Therapist Michelle Fischler, interviews Ellevan and Winny Clarke, hosts of the Disciplined Stoners on how covid helped to reopen their door to sexual explorat…

Is sex therapy really effective? In this episode, Michelle tackles common questions she gets asked before potential clients decide if sex therapy is the right fit. She emphasizes the importance of finding a good fit and comfort level before diving into therapy. With a solid therapeutic alliance and a willingness to delve deeper into their sexual na…

Today, I had the incredible opportunity to speak with the remarkable Marlee Liss. Marlee is a somatic educator, award-winning speaker, author, restorative justice advocate and lesbian Jewish feminist. Marlee made history in the justice system when her sexual assault case became the 1st in North America to conclude with restorative justice through t…

Where were you when you heard that Sue Johanson had died? Did you text someone with the news, or did someone text you? Today's episode is about grief. Host Michelle Fischler, who has openly credited her career as a certified sex therapist to sex educator Sue Johanson, recounts the moment she found out about Sue's passing through a text from her 15-…

We've heard countless tales of sex-starved married men, but have you ever wondered about the untold stories of sex-starved married women? We're delving into the unique challenges faced by women in this predicament. Show Notes 00:00 She wants more sex than him and he thinks something is wrong with her 00:57 Painful to hear her friends talk about alw…

Zero gravity does what to erections?! We were fortunate to be joined by the crew of the Sex in Space podcast, which includes Dr. Jane Harrington, Toshiko Frederickson, and Tim Blower, all the way from New Zealand, to take us on an intergalactic sexual adventure through the cosmos and back. We begin with intergalactic astronaut adventures, followed …

Does the thought of online dating stress you out? Are you looking for a more traditional dating approach? Do in-person matchmaking evenings still exist? If they don't, they should. Michelle recalls a brief yet hilarious encounter from her younger days when she was asked to fill in as the missing woman in an unevenly numbered matchmaking event. The …

Have you ever found yourself curious about the unique experiences of being gay in today's world? Join us as we dive into the vibrant, nuanced realm of gay dating, sex, drugs, and masculinity with board-certified sexology educator and host of the Sex Ed With Tim Podcast, Tim Lagman. Known for his unapologetic authenticity as a 'chaotic homo', Tim is…

Show Notes 00:55 Dating is a hot topic in my practice 01:01 Where were people going on dates during Covid? 01:04 Shame and secrecy around dating during covid and fear around being judged. 02:04 Sex did not stop during Covid 02:15 The best idea for a dating spot during covid 02:57 The plant section at Home Depot needs a cafe 04:12 Home Depot is a gr…

Show notes: 00:07 90% of people with a penis who are between 35 and 55 have struggled to get an erection firm enough for intercourse 03:17 What is Erectile Self Efficacy? 03:40 Autonomous sexual erections aren’t realistic 04:42 The alternative to panicking and apologizing 04:52 The "Good Enough Sex" Model 05:26 It's almost always the man's choice t…

Who's leveling up in the game of life? Raise a toast and light some virtual candles because GETSOME turns one today! Listen to the three knowledge bombs dropped over the past year that expanded our minds like cosmic jelly beans.저자 Michelle Fischler (Certified Sex Therapist)

How would you answer "How do you do oral sex?" without going into graphic detail about how you actually do oral sex? We came up with the best analogy. Tune in to feel all warm and fuzzy. Also, if you are looking for great oral sex tips and tricks check out; Coral: https://getcoral.app/ OMGyes: https://start.omgyes.com/join…

Today, we are going to take you on a journey exploring the intersection of eating disorders and sexuality. This episode will not only be helpful for clinicians but also for people who have struggled to experience pleasure in their body stemming from complicated relationships with food and body image. We sit down with Kelli Young, the only Certified…

Ever wondered how sex workers balance personal and professional lives? Are you curious about their clients and partners? Our highly-anticipated guests Elizabeth Weisz and Katherine Van Meyl from Season 1 are back and ready to get personal. Ever heard of the term Internalized Whorephobia? You're about to. This is a conversation you won't want to mis…

De-Andrea Blaylock-Solar is Missouri's first Black Christian AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, who helps clients navigate the intersection of faith and sexuality, particularly for those who may be struggling with guilt or shame around their sexual desires and behaviors. We talk about how De-Andrea removes shame from conversations around sex by using …

Lisa and Michelle play Six Degrees of Sue Johanson Sue’s first birth control clinic at Don Mills Collegiate was where Michelle went to highschool Michelle and Lisa reminisce about their personal sex education memories from high school Lisa meets the lovely and still spunky Sue Pregnancy and sex Getting acquainted with your vulva after giving birth …

Curious about the difference between mainstream porn and ethical porn/feminist porn? Do you even know where to find it? Who better to ask than the engaging and dynamic Sonya JF Barnett, RP. It’s rare to find an ethical porn producer/director, turned intimacy coordinator, (yes, we’ll talk about that) turned sex therapist! Show Notes: 0:24 Playboy Ma…

Join Canadian Certified Sex Therapist, Michelle Fischler as she embarks on a mission to inspire humans to embrace their sexuality, igniting a sexual revolution that spans across cultures, belief systems, and lifestyles.저자 Michelle Fischler (Certified Sex Therapist)

If you are having sex you should know about Sensate Focused Therapy, a widely used technique amongst sex therapists. This form of therapy helps support clients in getting out of their head and into their bodies when giving or receiving touch. It can be useful for a range of different relationships like those with a history of pelvic pain, people wi…

Various organizations across Canada are advocating for the decriminalization of sex work. This includes the Canadian Association of Social Workers, who’s code of ethics seeks to balance the protection of individuals and the principle of doing no harm with autonomy and self-determination. The advocacy only applies to the selling of sex between two c…

A revolutionary anti-government protest in Iran was sparked on Sept 16th, 2022, after 22-year-old Iranian woman Mahsa Amini was picked up and detained by Iran’s "morality police" for showing too much hair. About three months have passed, and innocent lives have been lost yet the people of Iran continue to hold their ground and fight back. For women…

Has anyone ever told you that your sexual concerns are all in your head? Well, that’s not always the case. There is another treatment option worth exploring. Pelvic Floor Physiotherapy can help treat sexual and pelvic concerns such as painful intercourse or penetration, early or delayed ejaculation, and can also support the recovery from gender aff…

Sexual liberation is not a fresh concept these days. But, when we mention a sex club, what comes to mind for you? A space that allows curiosity to unfold surrounded by like-minded people? This time we invited Fatima Mechtab (a.k.a. ‘Miss F’) to introduce us to the sex club, Oasis Aqualounge – a water themed, adult private membership spa and lounge …

Did you know that the average person will spend a third of their life in the menopause transition? We invite Certified Sex Therapist Nicole Schroeder this time to talk about ways to get comfortable with this stage of our life; How Generation X is pushing forward the conversation about menopause more than any other generation and, where to go for he…

Fatima Kamenge (She/Her), an Auntie, Human, and Joybonbon, is the founder of Social Ausum, a consulting firm based in Toronto, Canada that helps business owners build more socially responsible enterprises. What does this business consultant do in their spare time you ask? A sensuality workshop of course! Fatima is a true entrepreneur In this episod…

The politics of sex in Mexico contradict its modern metropolis. I speak with Sexologist, Dr. Selfa González Gomar Montesano and Sex Therapist Dr. Maria de Lourdes Martínez Staines about how traditional religious and patriarchal belief systems in Mexico continue to reinforce the prevalence of gender based violence, incest, abortion access, and LGBTQ…

Surrogate Partner Therapy (SPT), also sometimes referred to as sexual surrogacy, was first introduced by sex researchers, Masters and Johnson. They introduced the concept of sexual surrogacy to support un-partnered individuals to work towards sexual goals with another person in a controlled and supportive environment. A Certified Sex Therapist trai…

Do you ever wonder about how the intergenerational consequences of Apartheid continue to influence South Africa's dating scene? I speak with Rahim Thawer, currently living between Johannesburg and Cape Town as a visiting international scholar about how dating and socializing continue to be impacted by racial divisions that have yet to be dismantled…

Show Notes 00:26 What is a sexual narrative? 01:02 Sexual facts Vs interpretations 01:44 Adding flexibility to your sexual narrative 02:24 Sex therapy topics that come up in my practice 02:38 Fear of sex 02:48 Arranged marriages 03:13 Open relationships 03:23 Low sex relationships 03:26 Affair recovery 03:53 Sex addiction 04:37 Gender Journey 04:41…

Show Notes 00:00 Introducing Michelle Fischler 00:24 Modeling vulnerability 00:43 Building Trust 00:50 Master’s Degree in Social Work 00:54 Oppression and disparities in power 01:07 South Africa during apartheid 01:12 Sun City 01:17 Anti-oppressive framework 01:20 Racism 01:31 Complicit in ongoing systems of racism, inequality, and injustice 01:42 …

Show Notes 00:15 Sex therapist lead up 00:33 Psychotherapy practice 00:45 Humour and Optimism 01:01 What kind of sex life do you want? 01:05 Culture 01:15 Providing Sex Therapy for ten years 01:24 For audiences 18 and older Disclaimer저자 Michelle Fischler (Certified Sex Therapist)