Welcome to the Helping Couples Heal podcast. If you have lost hope around healing your relationship due to infidelity, relational or betrayal trauma you have come to the right place. Helping Couples Heal is an ongoing podcast designed to help couples recover and heal from the impact of betrayal trauma on their relationships. We cumulatively bring over two decades of experience and expertise in the field of betrayal. Throughout this podcast series, we will offer resources and support and teac ...
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Relationships are complex. They are filled with ups and downs, highs and lows. And sometimes, it can feel like you're struggling just to keep your head above water. If you're feeling like this, then it's important to reach out for help. That's where Tom and Staci Bartley come in. As relationship experts, they have helped countless couples overcome the challenges that they're facing. And now, they're here to help you. The Love Shack Live Show is filled with advice and tips that will help you ...
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In this special edition of the Helping Couples Heal podcast, Marnie talks with Stan about the original episode they recorded back in 2021 and explore why that episode was so popular with our listeners. Their conversation is followed by the re-release of the original episode.저자 Duane Osterlind & Marnie Breecker
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#174: Surviving Relationship Gaps: Real Stories from Love In Limbo Graduates (Part 2)
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"Can we really grow closer by being apart?" It's a question that haunts anyone who hears, "I need space," from a partner. If you're wrestling with feelings of loneliness and confusion in this space, you're not alone. This episode of the Love Shack takes you on a journey through the twists and turns of relational space, turning separation into a cha…
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#173: When They Say 'I Need Space': Your Roadmap Through Relationship Gaps (Part 1)
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Feeling the emotional tug-of-war when your partner whispers, "I need some space"? It's like walking a tightrope between giving them room and fearing the growing silence might become a chasm too wide to cross. Welcome to Love Shack Live, the sanctuary for those standing at love's crossroads, where daily challenges and emotional distances put to test…
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In this episode of Helping Couples Heal, Marnie talks with award-winning actress Maddie Corman about her journey of healing from betrayal trauma in the aftermath of discovering her husband's secret life. In 2015, life as Maddie knew it came to a screeching halt when the police came to her home to arrest her husband. In an instant everything changed…
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#172: Feeling Ignored By Your Partner? How to Turn 'You Never Listen' Into 'I Hear You'
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Have you ever felt the frustration of speaking without being heard, your words floating in a void between you and your partner? It's a silent trap many couples find themselves in, not from a lack of love but from a profound disconnect in truly understanding each other. Welcome to Love Shack Live, your haven for navigating the turbulent waters of re…
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#171: The Ultimate Guide to Communication in Relationships: Deepening Understanding in Every Exchange (Part Three)
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In the stillness of the night, have you found yourself wrestling with thoughts of unresolved arguments and unspoken words with your partner? As the world quiets down, do these concerns grow louder, echoing the depth of your emotional turmoil? You're not wandering through this maze alone. Welcome to the concluding episode of our enlightening series …
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#170: Speaking Your Truth: The First Step to Healing Conversations in Relationships (Part Two)
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Have you ever found yourself lying awake at night, pondering, "Why don't we talk anymore?" In the silence that has crept into your relationship, there's a longing for the days when conversations flowed effortlessly, and your hearts felt undeniably close. Welcome to this pivotal episode of Love Shack Live, where we delve into the complexities of com…
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In this episode of Helping Couples Heal, Marnie interviews Chris Jones, a coach and therapist who shares his own story of healing from problematic sexual behavior. Chris opens up about his own process, what he has learned and what was the prominent factor that caused his wife to never doubt his commitment to recovery.…
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#169: From Arguments to Understanding: Transforming Our Communication In Relationships (Part One)
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Feeling utterly alone even when you're just inches away from your partner is a heart-wrenching reality many of us face. It's like shouting into a void, desperately hoping for an echo, only to be met with silence. This profound sense of disconnection, where heartfelt conversations once flourished, now replaced by an invisible barrier, is a pain poin…
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#168: When Trust Falls Apart: A Journey from Betrayal to Healing
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Have you ever felt the ground give way beneath you when trust is shattered? "I don't trust you anymore" - these five words can mark the beginning of a heart-wrenching journey through doubt and pain. But what if it could also mark the start of a beautiful quest towards healing and understanding? Welcome to Love Shack Live, your sanctuary for navigat…
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In this episode of the Helping Couples Heal podcast, Marnie and Duane talk about the losses that result from betrayal and the grieving process couples must walk through together as an important part of relational healing. When couples are able to do the hard work of grieving together, they create the shared narrative necessary to envision a future …
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#167: You Asked: Real Answers to Your Questions on Space in Relationships
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In the dance of love, the steps aren't always in sync. Are you and your partner finding yourselves on a tightrope, balancing the need for closeness with the necessity of space? Welcome to Love Shack Live, a sanctuary for those standing at the crossroads of their relationship, seeking to mend the growing gaps and reignite a flame that burns true and…
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#166: The Intimacy Gap: Topaz Adizes Unveils the 12 Questions That Transform Love
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Do you feel a growing emotional gap in your relationship, a sense that the deep, intimate connection you once shared is slipping away? In the hustle of daily life, it's easy to find ourselves longing for a bond that goes beyond the surface, yet feeling unsure how to reclaim that profound closeness we crave. This longing for deeper intimacy isn't ju…
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#165: Feeling Alone Together: How Unspoken Expectations Are Speaking Volumes in Your Relationship
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Are you waking up each day, feeling like you're walking on eggshells, sharing a home but not a life with your partner? The reality for many of us is a relationship filled with daily conflicts and a growing emotional gap, where silent expectations and unvoiced agreements cast a shadow over our once vibrant connection. Welcome to Love Shack Live, a b…
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#164: Stuck in "Should I Stay or Go?" A Guide Out of Relationship Limbo
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Do you find yourself trapped in the relentless tug-of-war between staying and leaving, caught in a cycle of conflict and emotional distance that seems insurmountable? You are not alone. This episode of Love Shack Live is a beacon for those standing at the crossroads of their relationships, yearning for a genuine connection and a love that lasts. Jo…
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#163: Why Is My Partner Distant? Understanding Emotional Space in Relationships
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In the quiet moments of a relationship, when your partner asks for space, do you find yourself adrift in a sea of uncertainty, your heart anchored in worry while life relentlessly moves on? If you're standing at a relationship crossroads, facing the chasm of emotional distance and yearning for a connection that's both genuine and enduring, welcome …
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#162: Behind Closed Doors: A Divorce Mediator’s Secrets to Avoiding Relationship Breakdown
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Ever wonder why some relationships stand the test of time, while others crumble? Welcome to this week’s insightful episode of Love Shack Live, where we delve into the delicate yet powerful dynamics of love and partnership. I'm Staci Bartley, alongside my cohost and partner, Tom, and our daughter, Brooke. Today, we’re not just talking about love; we…
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55: Looking Ahead After Betrayal At The Start Of A New Year
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In this episode of the Helping Couples Heal podcast, Marnie and Duane discuss setting goals and intentions for the new year and the difficulty that might arise in the process when thinking about and planning for the future for couples trying to heal their relationship after betrayal. Our intention for all of our listeners as you begin the new year …
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#161: The Cost of Waiting: The Hidden Impact of Ignoring Relationship Issues
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In the quiet aftermath of a plea for space, many of us find ourselves at a relationship crossroads, questioning the unspoken needs and silent cries for attention we've overlooked. Welcome to Love Shack Live, a sanctuary for navigating the complexities of love and relationships. Join us as we guide you through the emotional maze and help rebuild gen…
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#160: Love’s New Year Revolution: Rekindling Your Connection Amidst Doubt
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🌟 New Year, New You? Let's Dive Deeper... 🌟 Have you ever kickstarted a new year filled with determination and dreams, only to watch them dissipate as life unfolds? This all-too-familiar scenario doesn't just apply to resolutions; it mirrors our relationships. The deep connections and dreams we hold dear often get clouded by our focus on fears and …
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#159: The Hidden Trap: Disarming Defensiveness in Relationships
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Have you ever wondered why minor disagreements in your relationship suddenly spiral into major conflicts, leaving you feeling isolated and misunderstood? Welcome to this episode of Love Shack Live, a sanctuary for those navigating the complex pathways of relationships. In today's episode, we're diving into a topic that, while often overlooked, play…
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#158: Fear in Love's Void: Braving the Silence When Your Partner Needs Space
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Have you ever felt the haunting emptiness when a loved one steps back, leaving a void echoing with unspoken fears? Welcome to Love Shack Live, a sanctuary where hearts at a crossroads find guidance and hope. In today's soul-stirring episode, we delve into the heart-wrenching experience of separation in relationships. We explore the gripping fear an…
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#157: Alone Together: Balancing Self and Us in Times of Separation
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Caught in the heart-wrenching dilemma of whether to reach out or respect the space in your relationship? You are not alone. Join us on Love Shack Live, a sanctuary for those at a relationship crossroads, yearning to mend daily conflicts and bridge the emotional gap for a bond that feels authentic and enduring. In this episode, we explore the transf…
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#156: Space With A Plan: Navigating Relationship Timeouts Intentionally
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In this episode, Staci, Tom & Brooke discuss the importance of navigating space in relationships. They emphasize the need for emotional space and the instinctual need to reconnect and understand oneself. They explore the consequences of ignoring the need for space and the coping mechanisms that often arise during this phase. The Bartleys highlight …
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#155: Space or Chase? Mastering Relationship Dynamics When Love Needs Breathing Room
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Relationships can be a complex dance of emotions, especially when one partner suddenly expresses the need for space. This often triggers a runner-chaser dynamic, a bewildering cycle that leaves both parties feeling lost and misunderstood. Are you feeling abandoned in your quest for closeness, or overwhelmed by the need for solitude? This age-old dy…
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#154: Beyond 'I'm Sorry': Unlocking the Power of Effective Apologies in Relationships
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Have you ever been haunted by a conversation gone wrong in your relationship, with a heavy heart filled with regret and wishing you could retract those hasty words? In the intricate dance of relationships, our emotions can sometimes mislead us, leaving a trail of misunderstandings and hurts. Navigating these complexities can be daunting, especially…
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#153: Facing the Storm of Separation: Navigating Relationship Breaks with the Love In Limbo Roadmap
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Are you feeling adrift in the turbulent seas of love and relationships? Welcome to Love Shack Live, a haven for those navigating the choppy waters of emotional disconnect and seeking a course back to heartfelt connection. Join us as we guide you through the intricacies of love's challenges and triumphs. In this compelling episode, we delve into the…
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#152: Beyond The Cycle Of Conflict: Finding Healing in Relationship Breaks
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Are you caught in the relentless cycle of conflict in your relationship, feeling like every conversation spirals into an argument? Whether it's a heated exchange or a cold war of silence, this cycle can feel inescapable, leading to pain, frustration, and sometimes the daunting request for space. This cycle of conflict often leaves couples feeling t…
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#151: Relationship Space: How to Resume the Conversation After a Relationship Break
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When the one you love asks for space, it can feel like a storm cloud has settled over your future together. It's a moment that can leave you questioning when—or if—it's the right time to reach out and ask about the possibility of mending what feels broken. In this heartfelt episode of Love Shack Live, we delve into the delicate question that many o…
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#150: From Compulsion to Connection: Understanding Porn Addiction & Relationships
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Ever felt the heart-wrenching pain of watching a loved one grapple with internal battles, feeling helpless on the sidelines? The journey of understanding and supporting a partner through addiction can be a lonely and confusing one, especially when it becomes the silent reason they ask for space in the relationship. Welcome to this episode of Love S…
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#149: Anxious, Avoidant, or In-Between: Is Attachment Theory Your Relationship's Compass or Crutch?
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Ever felt like you're caught in a dance of love where one partner craves closeness and the other seeks space? The rhythm of attachment can be a challenging one, especially when words like 'anxious' and 'avoidant' start to define your relationship. This dance can lead to feelings of confusion, frustration, and even heartbreak. The push and pull, the…
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In this episode of the Helping Couples Heal podcast, Marnie and Duane talk with Jake Porter of Daring Ventures about trauma, addiction, secure attachment, grief and loss, and how to reconstruct a relationship that has been traumatized by betrayal. We discuss how couples can create new meaning in their relationships after betrayal and the importance…
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#148: Beyond the Gap: Navigating Space & Commitment in Relationships (Part Four)
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Ever felt like you're standing at the edge of a dense relationship forest, lost and disoriented? The path of love can often seem unclear, with the shadows of doubt and uncertainty clouding your vision. The commitments and agreements you once made now seem like a faded map, leaving you wondering how to navigate when the terrain of love becomes unfam…
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#147: Why Does My Partner Misunderstand Me? Effective Communication for Couples (Part Three)
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Navigating the maze of relationship communication can often feel like deciphering a foreign language. The more you try, the more distant you seem to become, especially when your partner pulls away or voices their discontent. But what if there was a way to bridge that gap? In today's digitally connected age, why is genuine connection so elusive? Thi…
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#146: Doubting Hearts, Courageous Love: The Power to Overcome Relationship Uncertainty (Part Two)
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The emotional weight of a partner asking for space can be daunting. The fear of diving deep into one's emotions, confronting past traumas, and navigating the complexities of relationship challenges can be paralyzing. The thought of confronting past traumas and locked-away memories can be overwhelming. The fear of what might be uncovered, coupled wi…
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#145: Love in Limbo: How to Anchor Yourself When Love Needs Space (Part One)
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The chilling void of distance in a relationship can be agonizing. The once warm embrace now replaced by cold shoulders, and the echoing silence filled with questions: "What went wrong? Why do they need space? Is it something I did?" The uncertainty of the unknown can be a tormenting maze, especially when you're left to navigate it alone. As the day…
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#144: Finding Clarity in Relationship Space: You're Not Alone
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Have you ever heard those daunting words, "I need space," and felt your world pause? The heartache, uncertainty, and sheer weight of those words can be paralyzing. This week in the Love Shack, we tackle head-on the emotional turmoil that ensues when a partner seeks space in a relationship. This episode offers solace to souls grappling with the comp…
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53: Shattering the Stigma: Providing Hope for Men Impacted by Betrayal Trauma
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In the face of betrayal, healing may seem like an impossible task for male partners. Male betrayed partners are often overlooked in the treatment of betrayal trauma. In this episode, Marnie and Duane address the challenges that male betrayed partners face in the aftermath of betrayal and emphasize the need for support in their healing process. Men …
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#143: Surviving Midlife Crisis Together: A Couple's Guide
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Ever looked at your partner and felt like you were seeing a stranger? When isolation, impulsive actions, and out-of-character behavior become the norm, you might be weathering the tumult of a midlife crisis. On Love Shack Live, we guide you through life's complicated relationship moments. In this episode, we take you deep into the heart of a midlif…
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#142: Surviving Separation: How to Find Balance When Your Partner Needs Space
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"I need space." These three words can send your relationship into a tailspin of doubt, confusion, and emotional turmoil. If you've heard these words recently, you're probably grappling with a whirlwind of emotions and questions. You're not alone. The need for space in a relationship is a complex issue that leaves both partners in a state of uncerta…
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#141: When Your Partner Asks for Space: Your Questions Answered
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Ever had your partner ask for 'space?' It hits like a ton of bricks, doesn't it? Your heart starts racing, and your mind immediately jumps to 'The End.' But before you spiral down that path, let us welcome you to the Love Shack - your go-to place for navigating relationship hiccups. We are Staci, Tom, and our daughter Brooke, your guides through th…
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#140: The Space Between Us: Navigating Your Partner's Need for Separation
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The silent moments, the growing distance, the unspoken words. You're not alone in feeling the pain of drifting apart, even when you're right next to each other. With 690,000 couples divorcing in 2021, the challenges of love are evident. Career choices, parenting differences, and even the division of household chores can become battlegrounds. And wh…
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#139: Shattered Trust: Your Relationship's Road To Recovery
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You wake up one day, and the trust that was the bedrock of your relationship feels shattered. The person you've shared dreams, secrets, and moments with has betrayed you. The pain is real, and the path forward seems clouded in doubt. Betrayal isn't always as overt as an affair. It's the subtle lies, the emotional withdrawal, the passive aggression …
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